PAINS ARE MEANT TO BE FELT
I wonder who tells us not to grieve over our pains. Pains hit us so hard that we either scream or endure them silently. Whether we scream or not, it doesn't make the pains any less painful. There still hurt us in the magnitude at which there should hurt us. The thing about pains are that there are not gender selective, even though every gender has its pain.
Pains don't go because we didn't cry, rather it hurts us more, because we should have cried. Those tears are the consolations to our pains. There are the "we" running for salvation. Funny enough, it is only the strongest of beings that cry. A lot of people would chose to say that crying is an action meant for the weak, but that is not true. Cry when you can.
Tears may ease your pain, but you need to get a painkiller. Only a painkiller can actually take out your pain. If a painkiller does not take out your pain, rather it ameliorates the pain, then it is not the right painkiller for your pain. Your question now must be, what is the painkiller for my pain? If the cause of your pain is your job, you will need to get a painkiller for your job. Is staying and giving yourself daily motivations a cure to that pain? If yes, then good for you. If no, then you may have to quit. Sometimes quitting is an art of bravery, just know the time to quit. And the best time to quit is when you are still very relevant. That could be your painkiller.
Don't be mom, over your pains, repeatedly wail over them. Pains are not meant to just be pains, there are meant to be felt. If you have your pain, don't keep quite over it, scream so loudly, a doctor somewhere may have a painkiller for your pain. I may have a painkiller for your pain.
I wonder who tells us not to grieve over our pains. Pains hit us so hard that we either scream or endure them silently. Whether we scream or not, it doesn't make the pains any less painful. There still hurt us in the magnitude at which there should hurt us. The thing about pains are that there are not gender selective, even though every gender has its pain.
Pains don't go because we didn't cry, rather it hurts us more, because we should have cried. Those tears are the consolations to our pains. There are the "we" running for salvation. Funny enough, it is only the strongest of beings that cry. A lot of people would chose to say that crying is an action meant for the weak, but that is not true. Cry when you can.
Tears may ease your pain, but you need to get a painkiller. Only a painkiller can actually take out your pain. If a painkiller does not take out your pain, rather it ameliorates the pain, then it is not the right painkiller for your pain. Your question now must be, what is the painkiller for my pain? If the cause of your pain is your job, you will need to get a painkiller for your job. Is staying and giving yourself daily motivations a cure to that pain? If yes, then good for you. If no, then you may have to quit. Sometimes quitting is an art of bravery, just know the time to quit. And the best time to quit is when you are still very relevant. That could be your painkiller.
Don't be mom, over your pains, repeatedly wail over them. Pains are not meant to just be pains, there are meant to be felt. If you have your pain, don't keep quite over it, scream so loudly, a doctor somewhere may have a painkiller for your pain. I may have a painkiller for your pain.
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